Loneliness or Happiness?

Madison, we’re told, is high-functioning both physically and cognitively, and we consider ourselves blessed beyond measure. Our little girl is achieving milestone after milestone. We expect that she will be able to function in today’s society, to contribute, to be an example and an inspiration to all.

But will she be happy? Will she be lonely? Will she have friends?

Because of her abilities and disabilities, she will be a part of two worlds—the typical and non-typical. Will she find a place amongst her peers where she will have friends, respect, and love? And who are her peers, anyway? Will they be mostly typical people or mostly people with Down syndrome or other disabilities? Where will she fit in?

Ultimately, she is an individual, with her own talents and abilities. To hold a fulfilling job, have good friends, to be a good person, and marry if she finds the right man would be part of my dream for my beautiful daughter.

And, of course, to be happy.